the magic words - i need answers

i don’t know what happens to the male psyche during sex. i don’t even know if its a universal thing (and sweet baby Jesus i hope its not) but so far to my disappointment the magic words are holding true.

now when i say magic words it doesn’t have to be anything specific all the time. just talking during sex for some does the trick. but for me what never fails (or what always fails ) is …

”..not yet…”

it does not matter how early or late in the game i say it. but some how its like when i tell him to hold on its his queue to let it go. NO! is it control issues because i learned a nifty little trick for that. is it stamina problems? try exercise. seriously running helps with stayinh power.